From the Rector - Preparing for Christmas
Can you believe it’s almost here again?
Are the Government sneaking in leap days here and there
without telling us? Christmas will be with us soon, but
where has the year gone? More importantly if Christmas
is just round the corner when am I going to find time to
get ready for it? There’s so much to do and so little
time to do it in. Do you have the same feeling?
The church is doing its own preparation
for Christmas. We have a tree to decorate and presents
to put underneath it (donated by you and others on
Sunday 4th December at our 9.30am Tree
Service and which will find their way to children in
hospitals at Christmas time). We have to decorate the
building with lights (mostly candles for the Carols by
Candlelight on Christmas Eve) and flowers, especially
holly and mistletoe. Thus we can be as busy as any
family.
However the season of Advent, which is
the four weeks leading up to Christmas, is not just
about getting ready for Christmas day in a practical
sense. We are supposed to be preparing ourselves
spiritually for the coming of Jesus. Now we know that
two thousand years ago Jesus came as a baby whose life
changed dramatically the course of human history by
reshaping our relationship with God. But it is easy to
forget that Jesus also promised that he would come again
and, as John’s Gospel reminds us, take us to himself so
that “where I am you may be also”. It’s not hard
to see why this is often overlooked. Christmas is busy
enough without having to ponder on such things, but part
of Advent is about making a little time to reflect on
the meaning of Jesus’ promise. What did he mean? How
could he come again and to who and why? Clearly there
is some sense of divine plan for us and yet we cannot
imagine what it might be.
Last Advent I set myself a goal. I said
to myself, “Okay, I know it’s going to be busy
getting ready for Christmas, but I will take a few
opportunities to stop what I am doing and to relish that
moment.” And I recall a few moments where I did
just that. Even though December was no smoother than
any other, it took some of the pressure off my
anticipation of Christmas day. Rather than being the
great event that had to be perfect, Christmas day became
a day like any other, special for Christ’s birth rather
than the good time I was supposed to be having.
Actually I probably over did it, as my wife will tell
you, because I carved the turkey at the wrong time and
made a mess of the lunch! (Better not do that this
year). But my point is this: if Advent is the season of
preparing for the Lord’s coming, then let us be busy in
the Lord’s work. Mostly this means decorating the house
or church and giving gifts to family, friends and those
in need. But for a little time it also means getting
things right with God. Do yourself a favour this
Christmas – spend a little time talking and listening to
God. You might be surprised at what God has in store
for you!
May god bless you – and have a happy
Christmas.
David
Christmas Greetings
Our very best wishes to you all for a Merry Christmas
and a Happy New Year.
Pam and Derek Bowley
A Happy Christmas and a healthy and prosperous 2006 to
all our friends at St. Faith’s and St. Nicholas.
Beryl and Colin Carter
Wishing all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year with
love.
Sandra Haggan
xxx
Merry Christmas and Happy New
Year.
Vicki Mockford & Family
Wishing the clergy and everyone at St. Faith’s a very
Happy Christmas and New Year. Year.
Val Rose
Wishing all a Peaceful and Merry Christmas and a Happy
and Healthy New Year. Valentine Searle
A very Happy Christmas to all our friends in St.
Faith's. St. Faith’s.
Roger & Marion Simmons
To all our friends at St Faiths best wishes for a Happy
Christmas and New Year, with love from
The Smiths, Richard, Victoria, Emma and Holly xxxx
Peter and Rosemary Thomas would like to send Christmas greetings
to all the clergy, the verger, organist and the choir
and thank them for all their hard work during the year.
Every good wish, also, to all their friends in the
congregation. Rosemary especially thanks all those who
help so generously with their time and money arranging
the flowers in the church and wishes you all a very
Happy Christmas.
Happy Christmas to all my friends.
Ruth Tunks
Joy and Paul Utting
wish you all a very Happy Christmas and a peaceful year
in 2006.
Colin and Sheila Warlow wish all their friends at St. Faith’s
a very happy and peaceful Christmas and best wishes for
2006.
About The Parish
This is my favourite Christmas story. It was Christmas
Eve 1914 when E Murker out walking in the evening met a
group of German men who gave him a glass of whisky and
some cigars. Not much of a story, I hear you say. But
E Murker was a British soldier scouting across No-Man's
Land in World War One who had encountered an enemy
patrol. The Germans gave him the message that if the
British troops did not fire on them, the Germans would
leave their trenches and meet with them on Christmas
Day. The guns were silent that night and the following
morning the Germans walked cautiously from their
trenches towards the British lines.
The British troops started to emerge from their trenches
and the two sides were soon mingling together, embracing
one another and exchanging cap badges and the like as
souvenirs. The British went even further by giving the
Germans plum puddings which proved very popular with
them. Some days previously, the British had launched a
disastrous raid on the German trenches with huge
casualties. The British dead were still piled up in
front of the German positions and the two sides decided
to bury them. The Germans carefully carried the British
dead across with great respect to a half way line where
the British buried them. With dignity and solemnity,
detachments of German and British soldiers stood
together while a German and a British Chaplain
alternately read prayers over the massed graves.
All along the front in France and Belgium, similar
meetings occurred and it must be said that almost
everyone was initiated by the Germans, either by message
or singing. On one front, a British officer heard a
German soldier singing and when he had finished, called
out to him to sing another song. The German then sang,
Schumann's "Two Grenadiers". Soon the soldiers
had left their trenches and were talking and singing
together in a spirit of comradeship. The day finished
with two songs. The Germans sang, "Die Wacht Am
Rhein", (which my grandson Darren tells me is a
traditional German song titled "The Watch on the
Rhine"), followed by the British singing
"Christians Wake!” Some Germans and British
started to kick a football about but the later report of
an actual football match between the two sides was not
correct. In one extraordinary incident, a British
officer, 2nd Lieutenant R D Gillespie, was taken to a
German trench where they showed him a Board which they
had put up to honour a British officer who had fought
his way to the trench before being killed.
A member of the German High Command coined a wonderful
phrase to sum up their admiration of the British
soldiers and their contempt for their incompetent
generals who were as much responsible for their
slaughter as the men firing the guns. The phrase was,
"Lions led by Donkeys!" The principle Donkey,
Field Marshal Sir John French, went on record as saying,
"I issued immediate orders to prevent any recurrence
of such conduct and called the local commanders to
strict account, which resulted in a good deal of
trouble." On Boxing Day, another Donkey issued
orders saying that such unwarlike activity must cease!
Cease it did, because there were no further Christmas
truces.
So that is my Christmas story. Despite the Donkeys,
something quite wonderful and miraculous had occurred
that Christmas. When we next sing "Silent Night",
we should remember the silence of those guns and the
actions of those Christian Soldiers. Do have a lovely
and peaceful Christmas.
Roger Bryant
From the Registers – November
7th Funeral of Kathy Collin (Portchester
Crematorium)
8th Funeral of Gemma Litchfield (St.
Joseph’s)
9th Funeral of George Robert (Bob) Harvey
11th Funeral of Gladys Marjorie Cook
27th Baptism of Gary Raymond John Handley
George
Robert Harvey RIP
Many of us were privileged to
attend the funeral of Bob Harvey in St Faith's Church on
9 November, to join with Joyce and their family to pay
our respects to a man of great courage and fortitude.
Bob was described as a Wolverhampton Wanderer who in the
1940s had come south where he was to meet and marry the
lady of his life, his beloved Joyce. He lavished his
love and time on his family, giving them memories of a
very happy childhood and so much more. Over the last 15
years he won the admiration of everyone as he battled on
against Parkinson's disease, with the devoted care of
Joyce and family. He was a very remarkable man, much
loved and respected, and our love and thoughts are with
Joyce, their children and grandchildren at this sad
time.
The Cross
A young man was at the end of
his tether, seeing no way out, he dropped to his knees
in prayer "Lord, I can't go on," he said. "I
have too heavy a cross to bear."
The Lord replied, "My son, if you can't bear its
weight, just place your cross inside this room. Then,
open that other door and pick out any cross you wish."
The man was filled with relief and said, "Thank you
Lord," and he did as he was told.
Upon entering the other room, he saw many crosses; some
so large the tops were not visible. Then, he spotted a
tiny cross leaning against a far wall.
"I'd like that one. Lord,"
he whispered. The Lord replied, "My son, that is the
cross you just brought in."
When life's problems seem overwhelming, it helps to look
around and see what other people are coping with. You
may consider yourself far more fortunate than you
imagined.
Your Cross
Whatever your cross
Whatever your pain
There will always be sunshine
After the rain
Perhaps you may stumble
Perhaps even fall
But God's always there
To help you through it all
Historic Churches Ride 10 September
2005
My thanks to Mr Bruce Strugnell, Mr & Mrs Deadman and Mr
Wilkes for the super amount raised between them. I was
able to forward the sum of £232.10 and we have received
a cheque for £117.55 as our share towards the
Restoration & Redevelopment Fund. Many thanks.
Audrey Currie
Correspondence Column
I am Doris Bassett’s daughter and many of you will
have had a letter from me last Christmas letting you
know that Mum was in hospital for a period after having
had a fall at home. I am now writing to update you on
Mum’s circumstances since then.
Mum went home from hospital at the end of January,
with good home care support, but unfortunately had
another fall at the start of March and broke her hip.
This led to another period in hospital and a
reassessment of whether she could really continue to
manage at home. She had begun to suffer from some
significant memory loss over the previous couple of
years, and it is now clear that this was actually due to
developing dementia. The falls may well have been
linked to the causes of the dementia, and Mum’s general
health sadly went down hill a good deal quite quickly
over a relatively short period.
Since June, therefore, Mum has been living at the
Moreton Hill Care Centre, Standish, Stonehouse,
Gloucestershire GL10 3BZ. She has settled in quite well
and I know will be pleased to continue to hear from you
if you are able to keep in touch. Mum is about 15
minutes drive from where I live so I am able to call in
frequently to see her.
With all good wishes,
Margaret Sheather
(Mrs Bassett is the widow of the late Canon Bassett who
was the Rector of St. Faith’s from 1962 to 1969 before
becoming Vicar of Hambledon)
Recently we found amongst family archives a recording of
a service which was broadcast from my Uncle's parish
near to Midhurst in the late 1940s. My Uncle was the
Rector there and it was very interesting to hear the
differences in the services then from what we know now.
Perhaps the most striking thing to us was the way that
the service was intoned. Obviously there was no audio
amplification in use in the church then to carry voices
but we were impressed by the way that my Uncle used his
voice to carry to the far corners of an old building.
When Father Felix visited St Faith's recently it was
noticeable, I think, that he also made his voice carry
into the church space.
Can we learn from this? Do we rely too much on the use
of microphones to get our voices heard? I know that
microphones have their place but should we not learn to
make our voices carry more on their own? Maybe we need
voice training practice just as much as the choir learn
to create a carrying sound?
Do other people have thoughts about this?
Hilary Deadman
St. Claire’s Church – Service of
Thanksgiving - 23 October
The church was built 35 years ago to serve the expanding
population of Warren Park. It is a bright, small,
modern church with a hall attached and the partition
between can be opened to create a large space. The hall
is well used with a daily nursery and a youth club. I
often attend meetings in the church and it was very nice
to attend a service.
The church looked beautiful with twenty stunning floral
displays undertaken by members of local churches. From
St. Faith’s, Rosemary Thomas and Joan Medley’s lovely
arrangement was titled ‘Peace’ and was made up of
green and white foliage.
All the pupils from the nearby Warren Park School had
attended a service in the church on the Friday to
celebrate Harvest Festival.
Dom. Timothy Bavin, who was Bishop at the time the
church was dedicated, preached during the Sunday service
and there were representatives from many local
churches.
In common with many churches attendances have declined,
today there are just 35 on the electoral roll. It is a
very friendly and welcoming church and there was great
movement around the church for ‘the
peace’.
Ann Buckley |