As 2008 draws to a close we can look back on another
eventful year which has been recorded in “Faith
Matters”. Parishioners have again written about
their most interesting trips and activities and they
are both varied and interesting.
January
- Clare Kennar reported on her visit to Uganda;
Frances Joyce on her visit to Armenia; and Michael &
Ann Fluck on their visit to Ghana (continued into
February and March).
February
- Carolyn Bradfield (daughter of John Smythe) sent an
article from St. Mary’s Cathedral in Port Elizabeth,
South Africa as a surprise for her father’s 90th
birthday. March & April - Peter Appleby
gave us a “Themed Break” dedicated to the achievements
of the 617 Dambusters Squadron. April -
Shirley Caunter commenced her South America Adventure
which started in the Amazon, and continued it in the
May, June, July, October & December
editions. June, July & August - Peter
Thomas gave us his experiences in the last seven
months of the British Mandate in Palestine; and Trevor
Hopkinson responded with views from another pair of
eyes in September. Also in June, Graham
Frost reported on the visit to Walsingham.
August - Rosemary Thomas gave her thoughts on the
successful flower festival held in June and
Sarah Woodley our Police Community Support Officer,
started a monthly series for parishioners. Another
very successful Town Fair was held in September
and recorded in the October edition; Graham
Frost told us about his visit to Llandaff; and Jean
Uphill responded to Roger Bryant’s article on the
Portsdown Hill Shelters. November - we had
Peter Willey’s visits to the areas associated with the
First World War; Peter Thomas’s Welsh “Cruise”;
and a report on the visit by representatives of our
link parish in Ghana by Michael & Ann Fluck. I
also have a reflection on “Taize” by Margaret Calder
for a future edition.
We received a big surprise at the APCM in April when
Fr David announced that he was leaving to take up a
new appointment in the USA and the September
edition concentrated on the farewell to him and his
family.
Throughout the year, “Faith Matters” has reported on
all the PCC, PDG and BMC meetings so that readers are
informed as to what is happening in the parish.
One of our advertisers, “Kobblers & Keys”,
Darryl Doughty, paints in between mending shoes and
cutting keys and has an exhibition of his paintings at
the Art Ache Gallery in The Pallant during December
until 9 January 2009 – do go along and have a look.
Finally, a big thank you to all contributors to “Faith
Matters”;to the regulars, Roger Bryant and Sisyphus,
and to all our advertisers. To all our readers a very
happy and peaceful Christmas.
Colin Carter
Christmas carols are an important part of Christmas.
We are all familiar with the tunes, and the words are
a reminder of the Christmas message. But do we ever
give a thought to those who wrote the words and
composed the tunes? Some carols have quite an
interesting story behind them.
About two hundred and fifty years ago a man called
John Byrom lived in Manchester. He earned very little
money as a teacher of shorthand. (Yes, it was known
then, though not the modern systems). In his spare
time he wrote poetry, which brought him great pleasure
but no money. One year, as Christmas approached, he
asked his daughter Dolly what she would like for a
Christmas present. Knowing he had no money to spare
to buy presents, she asked him to give her one of his
poems. On Christmas morning when she came in to
breakfast there was a piece of paper beside her
plate. On it was a poem her father had written
specially for her, which he had called simply
'Christmas Day for Dolly’. It began,
'Christians awake, salute the happy morn, whereon the
Saviour of the world was born.' Dolly was
delighted with it, and proudly showed it to her
friends, among who was John Wainwright, the organist
at Manchester Cathedral. He liked it so much that he
composed a tune for it. Next year, on Christmas
morning, John Byrom was awakened by the sound of
music. The cathedral choir was outside his house
singing the words which he had written. The original
manuscript, in John's own writing, is one of the
treasures of Manchester. A kind and considerate
thought by Dolly for her father led to his Christmas
message becoming widely known and sung all round the
world each Christmas.
Another favourite carol, '0 little town of
Bethlehem' was written in Bethlehem itself in 1866
by an American clergyman called Phillips Brooks, who
afterwards became Bishop of Massachusetts. We usually
sing this carol to an English folk tune arranged by
Ralph Vaughan Williams, and there is an alternative
tune by Sir Henry Walford Davies. But its original
tune is the one popular in America, though not often
sung here.
On returning home from Bethlehem, Phillips Brooks
asked his organist to write a tune for his words. All
year the man tried to think up a suitable tune, but
somehow could not find just what he wanted. Christmas
Eve came, and still no success by the time he went to
bed. In the small hours he was awakened by what he
later described as 'angel strains’ sounding in
his ears. Eagerly he wrote down the melody, then in
the morning he harmonised it in time to be used in
Church for the Christmas services. He afterwards told
everyone that the tune had been 'a gift from
heaven'.
And isn't that what Christmas is all about? The baby
born in Bethlehem 2,000 years ago was indeed 'a
gift from heaven'. God's own Son, whom he sent to
show us his great love for all people. As St. John
wrote in his epistle, 'In this the love of God was
shown to
us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that
we might live through him. This is love: not that we
have loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son
as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.' And in his
gospel, 'God so loved the world, that he gave his
only Son, that whoever believes in him should not
perish, but have eternal life.'
John Byrom in his poem wrote of the angels' message to
the shepherds: 'I bring good tidings of a
Saviour's birth to you and all the nations on the
earth; this day has God fulfilled his promised word,
this day is born a Saviour, Christ the Lord.' The
response of the shepherds was to seek out the baby
Jesus and worship him.
Phillips Brooks tells us in his carol what our
response should be: '0 holy Child of Bethlehem,
descend to us, we pray; cast out our sin and enter in,
be born in us today. We hear the Christmas angels
their great glad tidings tell: 0 come to us, abide
with us our Lord Emmanuel.'
So, as we approach the great day itself, we must keep
in mind that, beyond the carols, the cards, the
presents, the crackers, the turkey and the Christmas
pudding, we are celebrating a birthday. But it is
most important for us to be aware that, to parody a
well-known TV commercial, and with apologies to a
certain popular High Street store, this is not just a
birthday: this is JESUS' BIRTHDAY!
A truly joyful and blessed Christmas to each one of
you.
Trevor
Its Christmas Day – All is Secure
Twas the night before Christmas
He lived all alone
In a one bedroom house made of plaster
and stone
I had come down the chimney with
presents to give
And to see just who in this home did
live
I looked all about a strange sight I
did see
No tinsel no presents not even a tree
No stocking by the mantle just boots
filled with sand
On the wall hung pictures of far
distant lands
With medals and badges awards of all
kinds
A sober thought came through my mind
For this house was different it was
dark and dreary
I found the home of a soldier once I
could see clearly
The soldier lay sleeping silent alone
Curled up on the floor in this one
bedroom home
The face was so gentle the room in such
disorder
Not how I pictured a lone British
soldier
Was this the hero of whom I’d just read
Curled up on a poncho the floor for a
bed
I realised the families that I saw this
night
Owed their lives to these soldiers who
were willing to fight
Soon round the world the children would
play
And grownups would celebrate a bright
Christmas Day
They all enjoy freedom each month of
the year
Because of the soldiers like the one
lying here
I couldn’t help wonder how many alone
On a cold Christmas Eve in a land far
from home
The very thought brought a tear to my
eye
I dropped to my knees and started to
cry
The soldier awakened and I heard a
rough voice
‘Santa don’t cry this life is my choice
I fight for freedom I don’t ask for more
My life is my God, my country my corps’
The soldier rolled over and drifted to
sleep
I couldn’t control it I continued to
weep
I kept watch for hours so silent and
still
And we both sat and shivered from the
cold nights chill
I didn’t want to leave on that cold
dark night
This guardian of honour so willing to
fight
Then the soldier rolled over with a
voice soft and pure
Whispered ‘carry on Santa its
Christmas Day all is secure’
One look at my watch and I knew he was
right
‘Merry Christmas my friend and to all a good night’
The General Sikorski Mystery
Last month we left Commander Crabb and his team about
to enter the waters of Gibraltar. Their task was to
find bodies and the General’s briefcase. Their
visibility was very limited and the dive was extremely
hazardous because of the leaking fuel oil. This was
wartime and there was also the risk of combat with the
excellent Italian frogman based in nearby Spain.
Sikorski’s body was found floating on the surface;
other bodies were found in the aircraft. Some bodies,
including the General’s daughter Sofia Lesinowska,
were never found, although one of the mysteries of our
story is recent reports released from the National
Archives that she actually survived the crash and that
two saboteurs had been identified. There were no
records kept of the flight, so we have no means of
telling who actually boarded the aircraft.
So who is suspected of sabotaging the aircraft, if, in
fact, it was sabotaged? At an enquiry shortly after
the crash, the sole survivor and pilot, Flight
Lieutenant Edward “Max” Prchal, said that the
controls had jammed. In recent years, as recently as
2000, much documentation has been released from the
National Archives which has shed more light on the
crash. For example, at the original RAF enquiry
Prchal denied he was wearing a lifejacket when rescued
but there was incontrovertible evidence that he was
wearing one from several witnesses including the man,
Count Ludwik Lubienski, Head of the Polish Mission in
Gibraltar, who physically pulled Prchal out of the
water. Another report in the National Archives stated
that Prchal, who was Czech, had told an RAF officer in
Prague in 1946 that he had lied to the Court of
Inquiry. One report stated that Sofia had been handed
a box of chocolates as she entered the aircraft.
Although her body was not found, the body of her
female companion was found, badly mutilated as if by
an explosion. The Air Traffic Controller in Gibraltar
reported an explosion as the aircraft was entering the
water.
So who would want Zagorsk killed? It goes without
saying that the Germans would have but there is no
evidence, not even a suggestion, in papers released
that they had any involvement in the crash. Not so
the Russians who were deeply suspicious of Sikorski
and would not have allowed him to live if he had
returned to Poland when it became a communist state.
The Russian spy Kim Philby was responsible for
Britain’s counter-espionage in the region and there
are reports of him discussing the possible
assassination of Sikorski with a counter-agent in the
German Abwehr. On the night of the flight, Sikorski’s
aircraft was changed and he took off in an aircraft
which had been parked all day, unguarded, next to the
Russian aircraft that had brought their Ambassador
Ivan Maisky to Gibraltar. The aircraft originally
intended for Sikorski took off earlier and arrived
safely in London. The master Russian spy, Anthony
Blunt, once said that his only major regret during the
war was ordering the sabotage of a passenger plane.
Could this have been Sikorski’s? Although sabotage is
the most likely explanation for the crash, regrettably
we have no evidence to substantiate it. A very
successful play called “Soldier” by Rolf
Hochnuth ran in the West End some years ago about the
alleged assassination of Sikorski by the British
Secret Service on the instruction of Winston Churchill
on the grounds that he was a threat to our wartime
alliance with Soviet Russia. Of all the explanations
for the crash, this is the most unlikely one. So the
mystery remains with us! I thought about it as we
landed on this same runway in September on a visit to
our married granddaughter Melanie, husband Jimmy, and
great grandchildren Louis and Maddison (Maddi).
Happily, their world is far different from Commander
Crabb’s!
Roger Bryant
Dear Colin,
Thanks for your message the other day. I am sorry that
I have not been in touch before now but - as you can
imagine - it has been a pretty hectic first year. I
was licensed in September and went straight into
Harvest Festivals, Remembrance, Advent, Christmas and
a very early Easter - generally in each church. With
that and learning what it is to be an incumbent it has
been quite a steep learning curve. We certainly
'hit the ground running' as they say.
But we are all well and we have been made to feel very
welcome. But I am afraid to say that I have not quite
found the time to write an article for 'Faith
Matters' yet. But maybe when things quieten down
I will see what I can do -my apologies.
I do hope you are all well and please pass on our best
wishes and prayers to all from us up here in
Lincolnshire.
Best wishes,
Fr
Charles
Dear PCC
I have just had the very (sic) pleasure of sending off
a total of £264.85 to Tearfund, coming from your
collection, the cake raffle and the Tearfund gift
envelopes put in the collection. This is really
great, thank you so much.
It was so encouraging to be part of your service this
morning (5 October), with Arthur Croad speaking about
Tearfund and our being able to bring some Tearcraft.
Thank you.
Yours very sincerely,
Dr
Simon W Mitchell
Christmas Greetings
We wish you all a Merry
Christmas and a Happy New Year. Pam and Derek
Bowley
Mary and Ken
send their love and every blessing to all their
friends at St. Faith’s for a very Happy Christmas and
a healthy and peaceful New Year.
We wish all our friends at St.
Faith’s and St. Nicholas a very Happy Christmas and
healthy New Year. A big thank you to those who
produce articles and deliver “Faith Matters” and help
in the Pastoral Centre. Beryl & Colin Carter
Hilary & David
wish everyone at St. Faith’s A Peaceful and Happy
Christmas.
Wishing all at St. Faith’s and
St. Nicholas a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
with love from Sandra Haggan
Wishing one and all a Merry Christmas and peaceful New
Year from Fiona, Colin, Louise and Ruth Hedley
Merry Christmas and Happy New
Year from Vicki
Mockford and family
Wishing everyone at St. Faith’s
a very blessed Christmas and a happy New Year. Val
and Melvyn Rose
Wishing all a Merry Christmas
and a Happy and Healthy New Year.
Valentine Searle
A very Happy Christmas and peaceful New Year to all
our friends in St. Faith's.
Roger and Marion Simmons
Peter and Rosemary Thomas
send their best wishes for a very Happy Christmas to
all their friends at St. Faith’s. Rosemary sends
special thanks to all who help decorate the church
with flowers throughout the year.
Best wishes to all our friends at St. Faith’s for a
happy Christmas and healthy New Year. Joy and
Paul Utting
Colin and Sheila Warlow
wish all their friends at St. Faith’s a very happy
and peaceful Christmas and best wishes for 2009.
To all our dear friends who are no longer able to
attend the services at St. Faith’s and St. Nicholas we
wish you a Happy Christmas and a healthy 2009.
Ruth Tunks RIP
All of us at St Faith’s were saddened to hear that
Ruth had passed away. We had lost a much loved, loyal
and devoted member of our congregation. Ruth was born
in Merston, Kent but lived in South London as a young
child. World War 2 saw her evacuated but after the
war she returned, this time to East London. It was
here that she met the love of her life, Ian. They
were both reading Biology at Birbeck College.
Following their marriage they moved to Somerset where
Ian started his teaching career. Later Ian’s career
took them to Guildford, where their children Julian
and Madeline were born. Their next and final move was
to Havant where Dominic and Claire were born and where
Ruth began worshipping at Christ Church, Denvilles.
Ruth was an outdoor girl who enjoyed cycling, walking
the dogs and sailing. It is very appropriate that
this little tribute is in “Faith Matters”
because not only was she a regular and successful
contributor to the monthly crossword but she was also
a member of the band of distributors of the magazine.
Ruth took life in her stride, never allowing illness
to pull her back or to detract her from her love and
interest in her family and friends. There was a
wonderful serenity and quietness about Ruth but this
was soon lost in her smile and friendly greeting. She
sat in the same pew, just behind the churchwarden’s in
the south of the nave, generally next to little Elsie
Yalden and often accompanied by one of her family. No
matter how many are in this pew, to many of us there
will always be the presence of Ruth.
Ruth’s prayer:
“Dear Lord
Thank you for bringing us together in your name.
May our thoughts strengthen us in faith, build us up
in hope, and make us grow in love, for the sake of
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen”
Roger Bryant
Church Shop
The Church Shop raised £2,365.01 during the last
session between October & November. Overall
£10,613.01 was raised during 2008. Thank you once
again to all who made this possible, without the group
of helpers it just couldn’t be done. New helpers are
always welcome; we really need you. Also we need more
donations, especially of clothes. We re-open on 5
January 2009 setting up shop on Saturday 3 January.
Please note gentlemen!
Sheila Warlow
Dear St Faiths Residents,
I know most of you by now realise that I try and write
a monthly article in the St Faith’s magazine. For
those of you who don’t know who I am, I am Police
Community Support Officer Sarah Woodley 13389. I work
alongside PC Anita George 413, PC Alison Craddock 162,
PC Kerry Bone 3394 and APS Jamie Allen 3166. We cover
the St Faith’s ward which includes Havant town,
Denvilles, Warblington and Langstone. If you would
like to contact us please call us on 0845 045 45 45 or
by email:
stfaiths.snt@hampshire.pnn.police.uk.
Over the past several weeks we have experienced a rise
in criminal damage and theft from vehicles within the
St Faith’s area. Satellite Navigation systems have
been the main targets though theft of diesel has also
been a major issue. Here are some preventive
measures:
-
Always secure your vehicle and double check that it
is locked
-
Try and place your vehicle in a well lit area
-
PLEASE remove all valuables – EVEN from glove
compartments and as a suggestion leave the glove
compartment open to show that it’s empty
-
Remove any satellite navigation cradles from windows
and try and clean the interior window as it tends to
show a ring mark from where the cradle was placed
-
Use an alarm system or steering lock
-
Please use a secure garage if you have one
If you would like any further information regarding
crime prevention then please contact St Faith’s Safer
Neighbourhood Team on the above contact details or if
you preferred we run a beat surgery on the first
Saturday of every month within the St Faith’s church
coffee morning from 1000-1200. If you have any
queries or concerns we’d be most obliged to
help/discuss them with you.
Regards
St Faith’s Safer Neighbourhood Team
Epiphany
Tuesday 6th January 2009 the Eucharist for
Epiphany will be at 6.30pm followed by a three course
dinner at the Brookfield Hotel. The meal is a set
menu and the price is £18.50 per person. To book a
place please give your names with a cheque made out to
the Brookfield Hotel to Sandra Haggan. Once again our
friends from St. Alban's, St. Francis and St. Clare
will be joining us.
Buenos Aires
What is it about ships that we fall in love with
them? This week (11 November) we have seen the
departure of the QE2 for the last time from
Southampton to sail to her new home in Dubai and,
although I never sailed in her, I felt the sadness of
those who had done so. I always had a soft spot for
HMS Vanguard ever since my father (Donald
Guest) served as a member of the Royal Marine band on
her visit to South Africa in 1947 with the Royal
Family. There is nothing I like better than to watch
the shipping from a vantage point at Sally Port in Old
Portsmouth. Anyway I digress!
The day finally arrived when we had to say farewell to
the “Spirit of Adventure”. One last look back
and a wave then we board our coach and head for
the Tigre Delta. A series of in land waterways which
have been developed rather like the Norfolk Broads.
Magnificent villas line the banks – the gardens, with
manicured lawns, stretch to the water. Jetty after
jetty with boats moored, take the place of cars. I
didn’t see any roads but as even the shops were of the
floating variety I guess the car here would be
redundant! After an hour or so, in which we were
served coffee and cakes. We returned to our coach and
set off to our next venue the restaurant “La
Caballeriza” for lunch. This turned out to be
quite an interesting place as well. All polished wood
and brass – decorated for the festive season and open
to the sky in the main part – what happens when it
rains? Our meal – 6 courses – was tasty with the
usual mix of meats, fruits and vegetables. As
everyone practically knew each other by this time, the
atmosphere was like a big party. It would be the last
occasion at which we would all be together.
Then a tour of the city and what a city she is –
Buenos Aires. By the time we arrived at our hotel we
had the impression of big boisterous and beautiful –
as her name suggests. There we were in the capital of
Argentina no less. Don and I did wonder how we would
cope here on our own – only a handful of Spirit
passengers were staying on. Too late to worry about
that and, as it turned out, we were to have an amazing
time.
After settling in our hotel – the Buenos Aires
Hilton – we headed for the waterfront. This was
actually the revamped dock area of “Puerto
Madero”. Rather like Gunwharf, cafes and
restaurants line the banks and it wasn’t long before
we were sitting with a cup of coffee. Soon that
evening we were to be startled by a firework display
that suddenly exploded around us! What a welcome!
Our first day found us getting rather lost – I think
we were looking at the map upside down! With the help
of a friendly Traffic Cop we got back on track and
found what we had been looking for – The American
Express Bank! We had opted to take their cheques as
currency and only one bank in the whole of BA would
change them! Then it was off to the shops. All the
vast precincts and arcades were of course festooned
with decorations as suited the season. Some of them
were amazing and offered a vast range of goods from
designer to run of the mill. Street traders were also
in abundance selling jewellery and tourist souvenirs.
Marches and demonstrations seem to be quite frequent.
Someone told us there was usually one every day. We
witnessed two anyway – one for the return of children
who had disappeared under the dictatorship called the
Parade of the Mothers or “Plaza de Mayo” and,
on another occasion, it was miners and builders
striking and marching through the city under police
escort. The traffic was very heavy, the roads
extremely wide, the green man very elusive and it was
a case of move on the light fast for all!

We visited various places of interest. For example –
moored not far from our hotel was an old steam and
sail frigate the ARA Presidente Sarmiento.
Built in 1897 she had sailed round the world and had
even docked in Portsmouth on one voyage! She then
became a cadet training vessel and was now a museum.
We saw the grand building which was the Presidential
Palace – the pink “Casa Rosado”: also the
Cathedral dedicated not to a saint but known as the
“Metropolitan”.
We walked up the Avenue de Mayo to the world’s
widest avenue “Avenue 9th July” 140
metres across. Every so often we would notice a small
crowd gathering. As we drew near we would hear the
unmistakable strains of the tango. After a while
quite an elderly man would lead a usually young and
beautiful girl into the intricate steps and, as they
twisted their heads and their legs in all directions
everyone stood enthralled and impressed by their
skill. Well I was anyway!

We visited many cafes. One was very atmospheric the
“Café Tortoni” full of the history of the tango
with paintings of past masters lining the walls. It
had a small theatre where shows were performed. We
followed the theme with a visit to a tango and dinner
show that evening. A chance to put on our glad rags
and go out on the town.
We did track down that lady – Eva Peron of Evita fame
in the Recoletta Cemetery, full of ornate tombs
and mausoleums and such a maze it needed a map to find
our way around. Now, after all the drama, she is at
rest in this quiet corner.

I would like to conclude my ‘saga’ by thanking
everyone for their kind comments. It has even made me
consider a career in travel writing! One thing for
sure in writing it all down it has been a way of
re-living the dream. So it is now ‘Adios Amigos’
and thanks to Colin for his patience and
encouragement.
Shirley Caunter
Pastoral Centre – Helpers Needed
The Pastoral Centre at the Havant Methodist Church in
Petersfield Road is open from 9.30am until 12-noon. All
that is involved is making drinks and serving with light
refreshments to our customers, some of whom come from
the Health Centre next door and welcome the chance to
chat. The work is easy and our volunteers find it a
pleasant and rewarding experience. A team of two is
needed daily.
The centre has been run for nearly 25 years by Churches
Together in Havant, Bedhampton and Leigh Park; ten
churches are currently involved in the project.
St. Faith’s provides a team of two every third
Wednesday. If you could possibly help please contact
Beryl Carter on 023 9248 6739 – the more people in the
team the less frequent the rota.
Turkey Treats
On the first day of Christmas my true
love said to me
“I’m glad we bought fresh turkey and a proper Christmas
tree.”
On the second day of Christmas much
laughter could be heard
As we tucked into our turkey, a most
delicious bird.
On the third day of Christmas we
entertained the neighbours from next door
The turkey tasted just as good as it
had the day before.
Day four, relations came to stay; poor
Gran is looking old
We finished up the Christmas pud, and
ate the turkey cold.
On the fifth day of Christmas, outside
the snowflakes flurried
But we were nice and warm inside for we
had our turkey curried.
On the sixth day, I must admit the
Christmas spirit died
The children fought and bickered; we
ate turkey rissoles fried.
On the seventh day of Christmas, my
true love he did wince
When he sat down at the table and was
offered turkey mince.
Day eight and nerves were getting
frayed; the dog had run for shelter
I had served up turkey pancakes with a
glass of Alka Seltzer.
On day nine our cat left home by
lunchtime Dad was blotto
He said he had to have a drink to face
turkey risotto.
By the tenth day, the booze had gone
(except our home-made brew)
As if that wasn’t bad enough, we
suffered turkey stew.
On the eleventh day of Christmas, the
Christmas tree was moulting
The mince pies were as hard as rocks
and the turkey was revolting.
On the twelfth day, my true love had a
smile upon his lips
The guests had gone, the turkey too,
and we dined on fish and chips.
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