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Our first date was to see a film at Studio One in Oxford
Street and Ian had left his wallet in his “other
jacket”, so I had to pay. Next we went on a cruise
up the Thames – the boat broke down and Ian was nipped
by a swan (the fuss he made!) and we haven’t looked back
since. I should have learnt!
Nevertheless we have successfully raised four children
and have reached our dotage together, so something must
have been right!
Ruth Tunks
(Ruth and Ian were married at Eastcote, near Pinner,
Middlesex in 1955. If you have an anniversary or
special occasion coming up, please let the Editor know
before the due date. If you are shy, then perhaps a
friend would let me know!)
Birthday Thank You
I felt very depressed on my birthday morning. My family
and neighbours were away. I would be alone all day!
I want to say a big thank you for the beautiful birthday
cake, your cards and good wishes. When I got home after
‘the meeting’ I found a fantastically gorgeous
basket of flowers on my doorstep.
Again thank you to those from St. Faith’s who made my
birthday a happy one and chased the ‘blues’ away.
Molly Griffiths
My Testimony
How oft in danger, dread or grief
I lift my eyes to seek relief
And there, before my upward gaze
The cross stands out before the haze
And one who trod this earth before
Who conquered sin and triumphed o’er
Looks down with pitying eye
To one so weak and frail as I.
The cross, the cross, how it urges on anew
The broken heart, where sin or sorrow has a part
When to no mortal can I claim
The right to listen as my words I frame
‘Tis thou, who bends to hear my call
And in thy mercy, God of Grace
Bid me once again the world to face.
The cross, the cross, Oh! May it be my ever dear delight
And in its beauty radiant bright.
May I rest content both day and night
In youth in age, in life, in death
And still with every trembling breath
Hold fast and shelter neath the cross
My standard, Christ my King
To thee my prayers and praises bring.
Elsie Abbott (nee Martin)
This poem was written by Jennifer
Trodd’s mother Elsie when she was young. Elsie was a
Sunday school teacher and was married in St. Faith’s in
1932. It was found by her granddaughter Susan when she
was looking through her books. Elsie is now 99 years old
and lives with her son in Bishop’s Waltham.
Christmas Greetings
Would you like to send a Christmas greeting to
parishioners at St. Faith’s Church and St. Nicholas’
Chapel via the magazine instead of sending individual
cards as was introduced last year?
Should you wish to do this, please write your greeting,
giving details to whom it is for, with your own name,
clearly marking it “Christmas Greetings” and put
it in the brightly coloured red “post box” on the
table in the Church by Sunday 13 November. Greetings
will appear in the December edition of the magazine. It
has been suggested that a contribution of £5 to the
Restoration & Redevelopment Fund could be made (monies
to Sandra Haggan).
News from Nottingham
When I told my friends that I had met a llama in church,
they thought I had finally gone mad. But the recent
RSPCA animal service in Derby Cathedral is just one
example of the huge variety of new things I have been
enjoying this month.
Before beginning the second year of our training, we are
all doing a month’s placement (six long days a week) in
a local church; my “church” is Derby Cathedral –
so really this month it’s “News from Derby”.
Once term begins, I will continue at the Cathedral on
Sundays and some other days, up to Easter, so it will be
(and already feels like) my home church.
Derby Cathedral became a cathedral only in 1927, but
there has been a church on the site since 943, the
present building being the third one. It is unusual in
having a (huge) medieval tower on an otherwise 18th
century classical building; inside, it is similar to St
Martin in the Fields, having been designed by the same
architect. Two of its claims to fame are the oldest set
of 10 bells in England (all over 300 years old) and the
tomb of Bess of Hardwick, who famously had four
husbands, each richer than his predecessor.
All thoughts of whiling away my time playing the (three)
cathedral organs were quickly despatched as I began an
action-packed month, which has included helping at
services and pastoral visiting, as well as getting to
know Derby and the people and groups based around the
Cathedral. I have also learned lots of useful tricks,
such as how to organise a massive collection of
vestments and how to iron different types of altar
linen. On my third day, I was told that I was leading
Evensong – a scary prospect until I was assured that, it
being a Saturday, the congregation would consist of me
plus a verger; this proved to be true at the beginning,
but during the service the congregation grew to five –
which sounds very impressive if you call it a 150%
increase!
I’m working mainly with the Canon Precentor - the
cathedral clergyperson who is responsible for liturgy
and music. Working with the director of music and other
clergy, he plans and organises the regular cathedral
services – about 25 a week – plus extras, ranging from
the animal service to the forthcoming installation of
the new Bishop of Derby. As if all this were not
enough, before presiding at the 9.15 Eucharist on Sunday
mornings he presents a 3 hour live show on BBC Radio
Derby, so I have also visited the radio studios and sat
in on some interviews. For a student on placement, an
advantage of a cathedral is that, as well as its own
clergy, it has other clergy attached to it who work for
the diocese. So altogether there are eight clergy for
me to follow about and interrogate, not to mention a
cast of diocesan clergy, archdeacons and bishops. I
have also visited the acclaimed multi-faith centre at
Derby University and its chaplaincy team, and by the
time you read this I will have spent a day with the
chaplains in Uttoxeter prison.
One of the great strengths of cathedrals is that they
can offer excellent worship in many different forms.
During the month I will have attended over 60 services,
of many different types. The music is great: there are
several excellent choirs and it’s a joy to be able to
listen to the wonderful music without having to do
anything! There are five main choral services a week,
sung by the girls’ choir or the boys’ choir, with and
without men, or by an adult choir of men and women. And
there are various groups who provide music for other
services.
As well as the Cathedral itself, there is a beautiful
medieval chapel - the Bridge Chapel - on a bridge over
the River Derwent. Here we have smaller services and
the atmosphere is quite different from that in the
Cathedral. Some of the Bridge Chapel services are very
traditional, with incense (which we don’t have in the
Cathedral because the smoke detectors don’t like it) and
some are more informal, including a monthly Taize
service and a thought-provoking Sunday evening service
called The Mass, run by students, who use clever
technical wizardry to produce exotic music, lighting,
videos and other special effects.
Twice a year, the Cathedral holds two big Schools’ Days
and I was lucky that these happened during my placement
month. About 120 Year 6 children came on each day, from
various Derbyshire primary schools. The children did
lots of activities, ranging from monument quizzes to
trips up the tower, to stained glass making; more
importantly, it was an opportunity for them and their
teachers to learn more about the Christian faith.
The Cathedral community has been wonderfully welcoming.
It is a parish church as well as a cathedral and has
several congregations, just like any other church. On
my first Sunday I was introduced to each congregation,
which certainly makes it easier to march up to people I
don’t know and introduce myself, but it does seem to be
a very welcoming place generally.
A great place to meet people is in the cathedral coffee
shop over the road, which was opened by the Queen in
2003 and has won several awards. I have spent two
entertaining but exhausting days as a waitress –
starting as dishwasher/clearer-upper and progressing to
taking and delivering customers’ orders. Thankfully,
the customers were all delightful, and very forgiving of
my ineptitude. The Cathedral staff enjoyed laughing at
me in my uniform polo shirt and baseball hat, but I
considered it a major achievement that I survived both
days without dropping anything on a customer.
So if you have never been to Derby, why not come and
visit? If you’re unlucky, you might even get served by
me in the coffee shop!
Rachel Phillips
(Just a reminder that Rachel was for
many years organist and choirmaster of St John's
Stanmore and is the niece of Alan Hakim)
"War of the Worlds - The Crusades"
Last month we left Peter the
Hermit and his Crusaders in Constantinople with the
Emperor Alexius who wisely moved this undisciplined mob
a safe distance across the Bosporus into Cibotos. He
advised Peter not to attempt to attack the Turks until
more troops arrived from the West but this sound advice
was ignored with appalling consequences for the
Crusaders. Meanwhile, they were fighting one another,
with the Germans quarrelling with the Italians and both
at odds with the French. To make matters worse, none of
them would accept Peter as their leader. After a few
tentative sorties against small groups of Turks, the
Crusaders decided on more ambitious moves. First the
French sallied forth to destroy a few Turkish villages,
committing appalling atrocities on defenceless people,
many of whom were Christians. Men, women, children and
even babes in arms were murdered in appalling fashion
and all in the name of Christ! The Crusaders fled with
their booty when Turkish soldiers appeared on the
scene.
Not to be outdone, the Germans
and Italians managed to halt their differences and band
together with a force of 6,000 to march on the city of
Nicaea, where the Turkish Sultan had his capital. They
pillaged and killed all they encountered in route,
although, unlike the French, they at least spared the
Christians. When they at last met up with the Sultan's
army, they fled into a deserted castle, which the Turks
proceeded to lay siege to. The reason it was deserted
soon became evident to the defenders because there was
no water supply within the castle, just a spring at some
distance from the castle walls which was behind the
Turkish lines. The Crusaders were driven almost mad
with thirst and after eight days were forced to
surrender on a promise that those who renounced their
Christian Faith would be spared. A few did and were
sold into slavery; the rest were killed!
Worse was to follow because,
while Peter was away in Constantinople, a young French
knight, Geoffrey Burel, took charge in his absence. He
persuaded the rest that they should march out from
Cibitos to find better defensive positions, leaving the
women and children, together with some monks and
priests, in the camp. They had to pass through a narrow
valley some three miles away, heavily wooded on one
side, where the Turks massed to ambush the oncoming
Crusaders. The Crusaders took no precautions, marching
along nosily in no sort of order, singing and shouting
with no thought of danger. The Turks sent a hail of
arrows into this disorganised mob, decimating the
Crusaders before what was described as the avalanche of
death swept over them in the form of disciplined armed
soldiers who slaughtered everyone they could reach as
the Crusaders fled back to camp. When the Turks reached
the camp, the holocaust continued unabated until even
the Turks became tired of killing. This allowed some
Crusaders to flee to a castle by the sea where somehow
they managed to keep the Turks out until Emperor Alexius
sent a squadron of ships to rescue them. The architect
of this disaster, Geoffrey Burel, was among the
rescued!
Back in Western Europe, armies
were being assembled. It occurred to their leaders that
it was not necessary to travel 2,000 miles to fight the
enemies of Christ, when they were present at home in the
form of Jews who were living peacefully in the Rhineland
and neighbouring areas. There then followed yet another
holocaust as the Jews were slaughtered in their
thousands in a series of atrocities and all in the name
of Christ! Soon the Crusaders were on the march to
Constantinople, stopping to murder the Jews of Prague
before entering Hungary, where they quickly fled from
the Hungarian Army but not before suffering heavy
casualties. The killing of Jews ceased as these mobs
completed the rest of their journey to the Byzantine
Capital. Soon the Princes of Europe were making their
peaceful way to Constantinople with their own private
and disciplined armies. As these armies started to
assemble outside Constantinople, Emperor Alexious sought
to exercise control over them by requiring the Princes
to swear an oath of allegiance to him.
One, Godfrey of Bouillon, with his two brothers Baldwin
and Eustace had arrived at Constantinople with an army
of thousands of Northern French, Lorrainers and
Germans. He refused to swear allegiance to Alexious
and, after a number of local skirmishes, astonishingly
launched a full scale attack on the Byzantine capital on
Thursday in Holy Week! Alexious was a Christian and
ordered his archers only to fire from the city walls at
the horses, not wishing to kill fellow Christians in
Holy Week. However, eventually he had no alternative
but to launch his cavalry on the Crusaders, who were
routed with heavy casualties. Coming to terms with the
reality of the situation, Godfrey met with Alexious on
Easter Friday and swore allegiance to him. Soon huge
armies started to appear from all over Western Europe
until the largest military force seen since the Roman
Empire, some 100,000 men, had assembled. They were
undisciplined and did not have a single leader, so it
was with great relief that Alexious saw them off on
their march to the Holy Land. We will be with them next
month for the campaign which led to the capture of
Antioch and Jerusalem.
Roger Bryant
From the Registers - October
2nd Baptism of Madison Rose Kelsey &
Harvey Jacob Lee Dorn
9th Baptism of Molly Charlotte Abigail
Willers
16th Baptism of Rufus Duncan Keay
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